Best Tips for Oral Sex
Oral Sex is all about foreplay and anticipation. As with most things in life, communication is key. For most women, clitoral attention is essential to orgasm. You probably have a few techniques that are your go to efforts and they do the trick. But why not try something different every once in awhile. This effort will be appreciated. Strive for quality over quantity.
Anticipation is Key
Tease a little before you get to the intense clitoral attention. Caress her inner thigh with your hands, tongue or try a prop like a feather, gentle flogger or ice for sensation. Use your sensitive finger tips to gently touch her. Ask questions, talk a little dirty. Try something like Kama Sutra Honey Dust for sensation and taste. The Honey Dust comes with a feather and you can dust the flavoured talc all over the body and then you can lick it off with your tongue.
For safer sex consider using a dental dam to cover her labia. It is safe for both of you. Remember to make it feel sensual, make a performance of using the dam. Remember go slowly, this is a marathon, not a sprint. Kiss her inner thighs. Continue for a few minutes as long as both of you are enjoying the experience. Take as long as you want. Use those sensitive fingers to caress her labia majora (outer lips). Try a small vibrator to intensify sensation. Consider a finger vibrator…it is an extension of yourself. It will help decrease your effort while increasing her pleasure.
Consider Using a small Sex Toy
Use the small vibrator for a little penetration, just a bit of a tease. You could try a flavoured lubricant for increased sensitivity. There are many wonderful natural flavours available. Drizzle the lube or flavoured oil not just on her clitoris but around her sensitive areas…use the thighs, the pubic area, consider her nipples any where that is sensitive. Ask does this feel good, take your time licking off the oil. Remember you’re working on your foreplay skill set here.
So by now she is really aroused. Hooray, you’re an excellent cunnilingust! So don’t disappoint, pay attention to her clitoris. You have built up a lot of anticipation, pleasure and excitement. Her clitoris should now be engorged with blood and will feel extremely sensitive. Check the pressure, don’t go too hard…the clitoris is not a penis…it requires a more responsive touch. Ask does this feel right? Change up the attention, don’t do exactly the same thing until she comes. Pay attention to her breathing, what she says, her moans…whatever cues she is sending you.
Become an Expert at Oral Sex
If you don’t want your fingers, lips and tongue to do all the work, consider using a sex toy with clitoral suction. There are some amazing suction vibrators on the market now. You can use it on her or she can use it on herself and you can watch! But that might be a whole other blog! Essentially use your instincts, ask questions, make an effort and you are on your way to being an expert at oral sex.
- Discover: The Top Sex Toys for 2021
ArticleThe kink scene is more popular than ever, and the options out there are endless. No matter what your gender, age, or sexual identity, in 2021, the sex toy industry is booming, and everyone’s looking for a little bit of fun to distract us from those COVID blues. Whether you’re single and looking for a […]
- Time to Focus on Making Memories
ArticleTime to Celebrate! It’s time to celebrate! Things have opened up, and we’re slowly coming out of our homes and getting back to normal. But, are we? I don’t know about you, but some of our default “going out” plans have sort of slipped away, and the idea of “date night” seems to lack the […]
- Top 3 things you can do every day to bring the heat to your relationship
ArticleNow that restrictions are lessening and life begins to look a little more normal, it’s time to check in with your partner. Have you been dating? Have you tried new things together? This month, we’re going to give tips on how to reconnect and spice up your long-term relationship to keep the magic going or […]