Discover: The Top Sex Toys for 2021
The kink scene is more popular than ever, and the options out there are endless. No matter what your gender, age, or sexual identity, in 2021, the sex toy industry is booming, and everyone’s looking for a little bit of fun to distract us from those COVID blues.
Whether you’re single and looking for a little self-love, keen to experiment with a plus one (or two, or three), or looking to spice things up with your old flame, this list is bound to give you some inspiration.
Additionally, a sex toy gift might be the perfect surprise for your plus one (but first, make sure that it will be welcomed). Whatever your reason for shopping, you’ve come to the right place.
Now, ladies, gents, and everyone else in between, grab your drink and get ready for a wild ride, here are the top 20 sex toys that’ll make you beg for more in 2021!
Sex Toys for Her
You know that you don’t need a man to give you pleasure, the key to happiness can often lie in self-care.
It’s not uncommon to hear that men always think about sex, yet, a study conducted by Brian Mustanski, Ph.D., confirms that it’s not just the less-fairer sex. According to research, women think about sex 9.9 times a day.
Are you looking to purchase a little plastic helping hand or give your partner a fun surprise? Here are some options.
Toy #1: The Bullet
It’s not about the size, but the way you use it. These pocket-sized beauties are perfect for the ultimate stimulation, and it doesn’t only need to be enjoyed down below.
Lie down in a relaxed position, put on one of your best tunes, and stimulate your sensors with your bullet. Use it to stimulate your breasts, inner thighs, clitoris, or, if you’re adventurous, your anus. You’re bound to have a fantastic solo adventure.
Whether you want to have some fun at home, or you’re traveling locally or internationally, the bullet is a toy that you’re bound to enjoy.
Toy #2: Vibrators
Vibrators are a much-loved classic, with thousands of products on the market. From rainbows, to glitter, or simply a natural skin-tone look, there’s a product on the market for everyone.
Are you currently riding solo? There’s really no need. A vibrator will give you all the pleasure that you desire. They are designed to heighten feelings of sexual stimulation and make orgasm’s easier to experience.
What’s more, while you can guide your journey by using a vibrator alone, vibrators are a fun addition to your bedroom play.
With so many exciting options on the market, your best bet is to do your research. Look at product descriptions and select what you think might make you feel good; it’s all about personal preference.
Toy #3: Magic Wand
Made famous for its memorable performance in Sex and the City, the magic wand is a must-have for every sex-toy enthusiast. Endorsed by author Lynn Comella, she sees the wand as a symbol of feminist sexual liberation.
The magic wand is versatile, having the ability to provide full-body stimulation, including the clitoris. What’s more, its versatility and massager-like make it fun for all genders.
Toy #4: The Bunny
The mainstream media went crazy for this product when it shocked the world in season one of Sex and the City. In the episode, “The Turtle and the Hare,” Miranda tells Charlotte about the wonders of the rabbit vibrator.
You are wondering why the bunny became so popular after its claim to fame? It’s because of versatility. Do you think you might enjoy stimulation on your G-spot within the vaginal canal and the clitoris simultaneously?
The rabbit ears will do that for you.
Toy #5: Discreet Vibrators
Whether you’re a mom who wants to experience some self-care, or a young adult still living with your parents, the last thing you want is the embarrassment of your toy being discovered by the wrong people. Luckily, you can discover the world of sex toys in disguise, the key to having your sex toy on hand, no matter your location.
You’ll love the Rosé Lipstick Vibe; but, make sure your friend doesn’t try to borrow this gorgeous vibrator, as it’s realistically dressed up as the perfect red lipstick.
Sex Toys for Him
According to RollingStone Magazine, in the year 2021, sex toys for men are more popular than ever. No matter your sexuality, you have so many options to enjoy maximum stimulation, both penile or anal.
In 2021, you can keep stimulated on lonely nights. Or ladies, get your man a little treat that he’s bound to love. Here are 5 fantastic options:
Toy #6: The cock Ring
Do you struggle to maintain an erection? A cock ring could be the answer you’ve been looking for.
However, that’s not its only function. Whether you opt for a leather, rubber, or metal cock ring, you can use it traditionally on the shaft of your penis or elsewhere.
Toy #7: Prostate Massager
Men are demanding them, so manufacturers are providing them, and in 2021, prostate massagers have exploded in popularity.
Are you wondering why?
According to experts, more and more cishet (cisgender, heterosexual) are exploring butt play, and sex educators have often been found to be breaking down taboos. Prostate ejaculation is said to be more intense and pleasurable.
Whether you enjoy prostate stimulation or you’re looking to explore new worlds, you’ll have endless product options available.
Just be sure to use a great lubricant; we don’t think we need to explain why.
Toy #8: The FleshLight
Patented by Steve Shubin in 1998, the fleshlight is a masturbation toy designed to collect sperm discreetly. They have an outer torch-shaped shell, a soft polymer interior, and a lip, vagina, or anal-shaped hole.
Along with the traditional designs available, you can also find quirky options to suit all tastes.
Toy #9: The Egg
While lesser-known, the egg deserves the notoriety of other trending sex toys.
Don’t fear the hard outer interior. Inside lies a smaller silicone egg, used as a masturbation sleeve. You’ll place some lube in the little opening, followed by your penis.
This exciting toy is definitely worth a try in 2021.
Toy #10: The Stroker
Recommended by certified sex therapist Courtney Geter, LMFT-S, CST, the stroker is a fantastic masturbator tool for anyone with a penis.
You’re said to experience similar stimulation to what you would with a deep hand or blowjob.
What’s more, they come in various shapes and sizes.
Now that we’ve explored the world of boys and girls, let’s discover ways that couples can explore.
We’ve seen waves of sexual freedom for thousands of years, with girls and boys misbehaving throughout history; they say that Marie Antoinette ate more than just cake.
2011 saw a new wave, as BDSM came to the forefront of modern culture, as the phenomenon known as 50 Shades of Gray hit the shelves. While neither the genre nor content is particularly original, the book did something that its predecessors failed to do; it put erotica on the map.
Now, every Tom, Dick, and Sally is looking to explore various fantastic products, and we’ve got some inspiration to share.
Toy #11: Feathers & Ticklers
Soft, sensual, and playful; the perfect words to describe feather pleasurers.
Picture a romantic night after a candlelit dinner: you’re wearing your favourite lingerie, sensual music is playing, as you use the gentle touch of feathers to stimulate the skin.
Doesn’t that sound like the perfect foreplay? Is dessert next?
If you want to be even more adventurous, you could blindfold or tie up your partner. We’re certain you’ll experience a night to remember.
Toy #12: Collars & Straps
As also seen in 50 Shades of Gray, collars and straps can be loads of fun. Feasting your imagination is the ideal way to relax after a stressful day’s work.
According to the book Creativity and Reason in Cognitive Development, creative thinking goes beyond reasoning.
Sounds like a great way to have fun and escape for a little while?
Toy #13: Harnesses and Strap On’s
And let’s be honest, they look darn sexy too!
The leather or fabric harness is worn around your groin area, and you can choose a strap on from an endless range, coming in all shapes, sizes, and colours. Look for a quality product that will last.
Ladies, if you’re pegging someone anally, remember to be liberal with your lubrication.
Toy #14: Power Bullet
More than just the traditional bullet, the power bullet has a remote control, taking your experience to the next level.
We dare you to hand the power over to your partner? Whether you’re looking for vaginal or anal stimulation, prepare for a pleasure-filled experience.
Toy #15: Remote Panty Teaser
If you’re looking to play in the bedroom, or take a night out to a whole new level, then a remote panty teaser might be the best way to have immense fun.
Give your partner the remote and allow him to control your pleasure. Such games are perfect for foreplay.
Toy #16: Couples Vibrator
Picture this: a silicone vibrator that can stimulate you and your partner at the same time. Sounds too good to be true? Well, it’s not.
The couple’s vibrator is flexible enough to fit in 2 holes. Are you feeling ‘naughty’? You can also use it as an individual.
Most options available are rechargeable and remote-control operated.
Toy #17: Transformer
It’s a thin, bendable silicone-covered wire with a stimulating knob on each end. Its flexibility and transformative features make it a versatile toy that all can enjoy.
The delightful transformer is safe for both vaginal and anal use.
Toy #18: Bondage Tape
Whether you’re a top or a bottom, bondage tape is fun for everyone. Take your sex life to the next level by channeling your inner goddess.
Bondage tape is soft, sensual, and light on the skin. These products are perfectly non-adhesive so that they won’t stick to your skin, sheets, or hair.
Toy #19: Water-Based Lubricant
While more a disposable product than a toy, it’s certainly fun enough to make our list. No matter the genitals or holes you want to use, lubricant is perfect for creating additional moisture.
Ensure that you always use water-based products, and if you’re into oral sex, we suggest a flavoured option.
Lubricant is pretty essential for anal sex as it helps reduce the chance of injury in such a delicate area.
Toy #20: The Sex Swing
Last but certainly not least, the sex swing.
While this will entail some professional rigging, a sex swing is a perfect way to take your pleasure to the next level. You’ve probably heard of them, and every sex-toy enthusiast should have one. Just ensure that you don’t show your mother-in-law your bedroom when she asks for a tour of the house.
In a nutshell, a sex swing suspends from the ceiling, allowing you to play with various positions, combining suspension and pleasure. It’s simple enough for beginners, and you can get seriously creative.
Due to its size, the sex swing is not an ideal toy for parents with younger kids; it’s not exactly subtle.
Whether you have a penis or vagina, are single, exploring, or in a monogamous relationship, there’s a toy (or 2 or 3) out there to suit your delightful tastes. There’s no shame in exploring your inner savage, so don’t be shy to explore.
If you’re new to the world of sex toys, have fun, be safe, and ensure that all your activity is consensual and pleasurable for both parties. Buy your toys with careful consideration, as you’re bound to spend much time together.
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