Top 5 Picks for Strap-On Play
Maybe you’re a novice to strap-on play, maybe you’re a pro; it is all good and know that we have to start somewhere. It is great to be curious or simply want to try something new. People use harnesses for all sorts of reasons, sometimes practical for erectile dysfunction but in this guide we’re going to focus on strap-on harnesses and dildos ideal for pegging. Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man by entering the man’s anus wearing a strap-on harness and dildo.
Pegging puts women in a role that they are not generally used to playing and especially in the bedroom it is good to shake things up. It can give women a feeling of power, control or dominance. You might feel more intimate because your partner is being vulnerable, perhaps playing a role that he is not that used to. Pleasing your partner can be quite empowering, when you share such an intimate act together you are really raising the bar. Women and men can feel such elation with this role reversal. Remember just like any other sexual encounter, foreplay is your friend. Talk to your partner, be respectful, even if his request comes out of left field, consider it. Do a little research, try a butt plug first and remember always be generous with lubricant. Butts don’t self lubricate, so go a little over board.
For guys, pegging is reaching the mainstream, thanks to videos like Bend over Boyfriend and television shows like Broad City but for some the act can feel taboo. And hey maybe that’s the fun of it, doing something that isn’t quite up your alley. Honestly why would you want to miss out on a pleasure at least once to try it and see what all the fuss is about? The prostate – the walnut-size gland found under a man’s bladder and easily accessible via the anus – is essentially the male g-spot. So come on, pleasure that g-spot or p-spot, you deserve it! Sexuality educator Dr. Charlie Glickman also shows that straight men who had tried pegging were more in tune with what their female partner needed from them during penetration. So you are sending a message to your that you are open to new experiences and you are telling her that you care about what she feels and wants. When you are in your 20’s it might be more about sexual partners, then sexual experimentation but as we mature, we tend to want to explore a little more deeply (pun intended) and truly the only person that is stopping you is you. So we encourage you to push your boundaries because we think you’ll be happy you did.
Top Five Picks for Pegging
Sportsheets’ New Comers Kit comes with a fairly small silicone dildo, ideal for the beginner.
Aslan Leather’s Pleasure Principle Harness Kit comes with a mid size silicone dildo and adjustable harness. This is perfect for someone who has a little more experience or feels “go big or go home”
Tantus’ Bend Over Beginner is a great starter kit for anyone who wants a complete strap on harness set. The harness is adjustable, 2 silicone dildos and a vibrater for her!
Fuze Rebel is a smooth silicone dildo designed for strap-on play. The base has a ridged exterior for her with a space for a small vibrating bullet.
Aslan’s Slim Jaguar is perfect to use with Rebel. Smooth lines and designed to fit you just right while playing with one another.
All our selections are silicone so remember to use a thicker water based lubricant such as Probe Classic, thick, rich and a simple natural ingredient list.
What are you waiting for? Try something new and different today.
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